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Motives for crimes are easy -- money, sex, revenge...and little else. But motives for our actions toward God are complex, often we don't even know them ourselves. And even if we do know why we are doing something (or think we know), we really can't change our core motivations. Our motives simply reveal our heart. For example, if I study my Bible because it makes me look smart in Sunday School -- I can't just flip a switch to make that not true...because pride is my sin nature. And I can't just stop studying my Bible -- because those are the words of life. So, what do I do? Only One Person can change our "whys" and that's Jesus. He not only knows our deepest, darkest reasons -- but even better, He is able to reveal them to us and then remove our motives and replace them with His perfect purposes. And if you are thinking, "Wow! Is that a process or what?" You nailed it. It's a miracle -- God's miracle that He chooses to work out in our lives through Christ. Is it any wonder then that we must abide in this relationship with Christ (John 15)? Not with merely all the "God-things", but in seeking relationship with Christ, asking for Him to change us and submitting to His hand as He does whatever He wants. As the old song says, "There's no other way to be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey."  Trust and obey, for there's no other way to be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey.  "I do all the "things" -- but I am not experiencing God." This is the sentiment I think most experiencing God books are trying to address. Someone who desires a deeper relationship with God, but the things they are trying aren't working.
And some books say, stop doing the things. Some say, just keep doing the things. Other books say, do different things. But once ensuring we know Jesus as Savior, many authors don't say anything about our ongoing relationship. Our relationship with God is pictured as a marriage. Just as marriage can't be sustained by merely consistently checking off the marriage checklist. Neither is a relationship with God healthy merely because we check off the spiritual checklist. Certain things must be present to have a healthy marriage. They demonstrate and contribute to the health of the marriage. But these "things" are not the relationship. The same is true spiritually. We go to church and serve, and study our Bibles and pray, not because these things are the relationship -- but because we have a relationship already. The things are important, but it's less about the things and more about the reason that we do them. Motive is invisible, sometimes imperceptible (even to the individual), and absolutely key. A while a woman may or may not know if a man is just going through the motions...God absolutely does. Whole books have been written on experiencing God. Many of us read the titles and envision tricks and tips to feel His presence, ways to hear and discern His voice, and secrets to enjoy spiritual disciplines that, honestly, sometimes are dry and boring. Could the problem be that we are seeking the experience of God, without a relationship with God? Is our issue that we want to enjoy the high of God, without a day-by-day walk with God? Maybe we are seeking to know of God, without our lives being transformed with God? So, maybe before seeking to experience God, we should ask -- no beg -- Him to grant us a desire to grow in relationship with Christ.   We, as the human race, crave experiences. Lots of us even have lists.
I want to: Skydive Visit the Taj Mahal Snorkel Tour the White House Kiss an alligator And we check these things off with a self-satisfied smile. The problem is that we like to try to do this with people and with God. I want to: Get married Have kids Be friends with...INSERT NAME. What we really mean is that we want to experience being married or having kids or being their friend. We want to enjoy their love and company and the purpose they provide our lives. We want to benefit from their connections, money, boat and RV. We are thinking about all the good things. Not, I want to love them when we have no money, they lose their job or their health, and we have to move to Fairbanks, AK. Not, I want to be there when they are screaming and so much goop is coming from their nose, they vomit. Not, I want to be a good friend when their mom dies, or they are going through cancer treatment or substance abuse counseling. That's not what we want to experience. But that is what a relationship is -- it's a life, not an experience. “The system can handle a little bit of these things.” I still remember this phrase from one of my childhood movies, “Down the Drain”. You likely never saw it. It was basically an infomercial on the importance of water in everyday life and how to care for our water supply. If you're thinking: "You did not have very many videos growing up" – you are correct! But that phrase about the system is very applicable to our spiritual lives too. The Christian life is sustained by abiding in Truth (John 15), not basking in lies. Often, we eat a heavy diet of worldly philosophy and entertainment, and then we wonder why we are spiritually sick and struggling. This is like dumping chemicals into the water supply and wondering why the fish and flowers die. The system -- whether physical or spiritual -- can only handle a little bit of these things. But unlike our physical water supply, limited and easily contaminated, our Savior is the well that never runs dry. He is unlimited and cannot be overcome by any sin or addiction. This is why Jesus calls us to return to Him -- not merely sorry for our sins, but submitted to His Lordship. And He will faithfully forgive and provide us the strength to live the Christ-like life.  |
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