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Too Cool!

12/28/2018

 
A good friend recently shared with me a family tradition that I now share with you.  To me it was a combination Christmas/New Years tradition.  
When their family gets together for the holidays, they take time out to share what their goals are for the coming year.  Then they write them down and next Christmas/New Years they discuss how they did.  Maybe they did it perfectly, maybe they struggled,  or maybe it became clear that God desired something different than they did. 
Not only is this a great time to get to know each other in a deeper way but it is also giving the opportunity for each family member to pray and encourage every other family member.   
Now, how cool is that?
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Gift Giving Made Easy

12/21/2018

 
​“Therefore, as through one man’s offense judgment came to all men, resulting in condemnation, even so through one Man’s righteous act the free gift came to all men, resulting in justification of life.” – Romans 5:18
A: 
A gift shows you care and have cared enough to observe them in order to pick out something they want.  Translation: A gift is not just an item.  It is a demonstration that you know them and how they give and receive love.  “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” – Romans 5:8
B: People show and receive love differently.  “Since you were precious in My sight,
You have been honored, and I have loved you…”  -- Isaiah 43:4

If your recipient feels most loved by:
  1. * Touching – couple each gift with a hug or kiss (if appropriate – I recommend against kissing/hugging your boss/co-workers).
  2. * Getting Gifts – multiple small gifts may totally make their Christmas and let them know how much you love them. (Remember the 12 Days of Christmas Song?  The True Love (I think) was a gifts person!  12 different gifts just to say I care :0).
  3. * Words of Encouragement – be sure to include a note with each gift (they will likely keep the note longer anyway :0).
  4. * Spending Time Together – gifts that include time with you or other loved ones are going to be the best received (tickets for events, dining together, invitation for a special activity, a search where everyone solves the riddles together etcetera).
  5. * Acts of Service – These gifts often come in the form of coupons such as for baking their favorite desert or dinner, detailing their car or less glamorous things like: unclogging the bathroom sink.
C: A gift is a reflection of Jesus who did all things well (Mark 7:37).  “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.” – John 13:34  
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BONUS!  Getting Gifts Made Easy!
While a gift shows how much they care, your response shows how much you care.  Accepting their gift is accepting their love.  With this in mind it is easy to be enthusiastic!  (Of course, there is also a place after receiving 18 pairs of argyle socks to let Aunt Martha know you are more of an ankle socks person :0).
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12 Ways to Worship Jesus on the 12 Days of Christmas

12/17/2018

 
1. Crown Christ Lord of your heart during this Christmastime.  Jesus have first place in my life -- now and forever.
2. Hang onto the awe.  God stepped down into human place and time, took our weaknesses and lived among us.
3. Sing Christmas carols as though only God is watching.
4.  
Meditate on the Biblical themes of those carols.  Example: Infant Holy, Infant Lowly speaks of Jesus stepping down from heaven into our world just like Philippians 2:5-11!
5. Apply the attitudes of Jesus, Mary, Joseph, the shepherds, the wise men, and the other praiseworthy characters of the Christmas story to your life.
6. 
Serve with joy rather than obligation.  For it is God works in you both to will and do for His good pleasure!  (Phil 2:13)
7. 
Give gifts that are more for the other person than for you.  Gift giving is not a check list but an opportunity to express love – just like God did for us on the first Christmas.
​8. 
Offer all of yourself not just all of your busyness to Jesus.
9. Engage in a musical retelling of the Christmas story (puppets optional :0) until your soul exclaims with Mary’s: My soul magnifies the Lord and my spirit has rejoiced in God my Savior.  For He Who is mighty has done great things for me and holy is His name.  (Luke 1:46-49)
10. 
Memorize a new passage of scripture and pray it back to God – what better words to glorify God with than His own!
11. Pray wholeheartedly and purposefully lay aside the decoration, dinner preparations and everything else waiting to be done and focus on Jesus.
12. Purpose not to substitute stuff (choir practice, cookie baking and so on) for daily time with Jesus.  Let us not forget, His birth made possible His death, endured so we could have this eternal relationship with God.  (Col 1:13-14)

An Exercise in Faith

12/7/2018

 
Have you ever had days, weeks, or years where you feel like your faith is being put through an obstacle course?  Honestly, I normally don’t realize my faith has been stretching until after it has pulled a muscle.  Yesterday was an exception.  I began thinking half way through about what God could possibly be up to because, well…
I went straight to the airport after finishing up two days of back-to-back interviews.  After my Dad fixed a small technical hiccup, I was able return the rental car with almost two hours left to make it through security.  It took 90 minutes.
That is when I realized I left my phone under the huge key fobs in the rental car and there was no time to go back for it.  Great.  Then the plane iced up and our second engine couldn’t start.  But that was okay because my second flight was delayed and had a gate change x 6 (no joke) and was delayed again…and again.  At 0300 my flight finally took off. 
And it was sometime during those 7 hours while exhaustion was overtaking me that I realized: God is at work here.  This is quite simply one of the worst days of my life.  But it was all under His control, He was working it out and I needed to trust that.  That is when I realized, even though everything was going terribly:
  1. The rental company found my phone and was sending it snail mail.  Mild inconvenience and cost but nothing detrimental.
  2. The second delay allowed me to actually catch the flight (otherwise I would have missed it completely).
  3. And the airline choose not cancel my final flight (which I though they may because  about 50% of the passengers jumped ship and went to a hotel).
Everything ultimately worked out – by the grace of God. I’d call that an exercise in faith.  When is the last time your faith got the opportunity to work out?  Remember it?  Remember it.  God is faithful and He is at work in us.  How about that?


​For we walk by faith, not by sight.
​  2 Corinthians 5:7


​Praise God He didn't leave us to sink or swim.  He gave us life vests.

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