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Insights from a Fence...Part 2

7/3/2025

 
I admit it. When I saw how hard my fellow-walker was trying to see the weed-wacking guy: I laughed at her and judged her lack of insight. (And then felt guilty for my uncharitable thoughts.) But in life, once we grasp the condition of those around us, we must be intentional to hear and head Paul's instructions about dealing with those who cannot see (2 Timothy 2:24-26).
His first point? Don't fight with them. It is cruel for a man with sight to beat up a man who is blind. How similar if we who see Christ's goodness use our sight to berate those who cannot see? Instead, Paul urged Timothy to be a gentle and patient teacher, humble in correction. It may just be that God will grant them repentance so they can come to their senses and escape.
​So, next time I see a fence, real or intangible, may I be gracious in my response and pray that one day they too will know the truth.

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Insights from a Fence...Part 1

6/26/2025

 
Walking home there was a man weed-wacking his lawn -- it wasn't that interesting. But the woman walking toward me was fascinated. She must have glanced his way at least a half-dozen times in 20 feet. And that's when I realized where I could see every stubborn weed, she couldn't see anything. There was a fence, and she was effectively blind.
The world around us is like that. It can't see what see -- what we see is spiritually discerned. We know sin has consequences, that rebellion against God is destructive to the rebel. They don't. They can't unless God brings them around and the fence is no longer obstructing their view.
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But I'm Still in the Chair, Dad!

6/19/2025

 
I'm not going to lie...the sermon was dragging and while the pastor was talking about the Bible as the Word of God, two small, green sneakers peaked up at me and then flopped over the pew chairs in front of me. And of course, I started thinking.
The son was technically obeying his father's command to stay in the seat with his head dangling and his feet propped up in the chair. But he was clearly disobeying the father's intent. And while we struggled to explain this concept to children -- we are not children. Yet -- like Kind Saul (1 Samuel 15) -- how often do we do this to God. And for what purpose? We aren't fooling God, are we trying to fool ourselves?
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God Defines...

6/12/2025

 
"He's a nice guy." In other words, this man is considerate enough to be considered "nice". His character doesn't define the word nice -- he is described by the word.
"God is good." In other words, God's actions, words, and thoughts toward us are kind and loving. But unlike "nice" people, who may not always be gentle or gracious, God's character is the ultimate measure of the word. God is not described by adjectives, but if accurately used, God defines the adjective.
When God is said to be good -- or love or patient or just -- He is always good because God reflects the true meaning of the word, not vice versa. Because of this if we want to know what goodness is, we don't define the word and then measure God to see if He meets the criteria, we look to God to understand the criteria and define the word.
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3 Thoughts When We Don't Want to Pray: Thought 3

6/5/2025

 
If I want to remember everything that should be on my to do list...it will all come flooding back if I start praying. And it begs the question:
3. Am I worshiping an idol instead of God?
What do I desire to do instead of engaging in conversation with God? Is it the business of life? Am I seeking entertainment as more enjoyable than the presence of God? Perhaps pursuing a worldly ideal above God? What needs to be put aside to provide focus and energy for prayer? The chores. The computer. The need for a perfect house, career, or life.
Consider:
Putting whatever it is, in a physical or a metaphorical box, leaving it behind, and purposefully, humbly enter the presence of God. Start with confession: God, I have been worshiping BLANK instead of You...
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3 Thoughts When We Don't Want to Pray: Thought 2

5/29/2025

 
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Some days, there are some people I don't want to see or speak to. In the same way, if I am avoiding prayer...
2. Am I avoiding God?
At times, we all have reasons to avoid God. Anger at what God has done or hasn't done. Depression that God has not relieved. Disappointment in what God has allowed and failed to provide. Disobedience to what God has clearly commanded. Stubbornness in the face of the Spirit's promptings.
Return to God. Speak to Him. Tell Him. He already knows. Instead of asking God to change your circumstances. Ask Him to change your feelings, your heart, your desires.

3 Thoughts When We Don't Want to Pray: Thought 1

5/22/2025

 
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The time to pray is here and, honestly, I want to clean the bathroom or rearrange the furniture or do anything -- except pray. Why?
1. Am I out of practice?
Good habits are easy to erode and bad ones easy to pick up. Apathy is a comfortable enemy that masquerades as a friend. Even good habits and tradition often slide into apathy, just going through the motions. To break its hold, a heartfelt pattern must be reestablished.
Options:
If it is a lack of habit, pray before your devotions or set a five-minute timer for the same time every day and pray uninterrupted.
If it is a lack of heart, sing during prayer, write your prayers as letters to God, or kneel during prayer.

10 Tips for When Pray Seems Stale...

5/15/2025

 
Sometimes my prayers seem...repetitive. I use the same words. The same patterns. The same requests. My prayers seem...boring. But this doesn't have to be the case:
1. Pray through a passage of Scripture. Use the words, stories, and imagery to worship and request.
2. Sing as part of prayer or sing your prayer.
3. Go somewhere special to pray or take a pray walk.
4. Write your prayers down -- as letters to God.
5. Pray over a specific topic or request from a ministry or situation.
6. Draw while you pray.
7. Change your position, kneel, get on your face, raise your hands.
8. Pray with a friend. Or text prayers to friends to let you know you are praying for them.
9. Fast from technology, a meal, or something else in order to pray.
10. Set a one-minute timer and pray for something specific one minute at a time.
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If You Don't Know What to Pray...

5/8/2025

 
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1. Worship God in place of petitioning God.
2. Pray through a Psalm that reflects the situation or your emotions.
3. Ask for God to glorify Himself.
4. Pray that others will come to know Christ and walk more closely with Him.
5. Request God to soften your heart (or the hearts of others).
6. Ask God to help you (and others) to obey.
7. Pray for Godly character and wisdom in the lives of all involved.
8. Find a prayer in Scripture and pray it -- like Philippians 1:9-11 or Colossians 1:9-11.
9. Rehearse reasons to trust God -- both in the Bible and that you have personally experienced.
10. Thank God for every good thing.

Dealing with Warts

5/1/2025

 
I was looking at a wart...a stubborn wart. I had tried multiple times to get rid of it and failed. Warts are caused by a virus. But instead of destroying the virus and the infected cells, the immune system tolerates it. The virus is merely walled off. So it continues to make its home in the skin...unless something happens to awaken the immune system.
How spiritually applicable. Often we are blind to our pet sins. They are walled off and safe from our defenses until something happens that causes us to see our pride or our selfishness or our idolatry. And just like my immune system, we can acknowledge the presence of an invader and kill it – even though it means losing some cells in the process. Or we can choose to ignore the sin, wall it off again and have a wart. That can grow and spread. Our choice.
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