How is that Possible?

Most of us agree: Some people spell their names...oddly. (And then get upset when no one spells it right, but I digress.)
Most of us also agree: That peer pressure is generally bad. 
So, why do most of us allow ourselves to be pressured by "societal norms" (except those to spell our names "normally")?

Thank you to a friend who shared this trio with us!